You may want to feel needed,
But that’s no reason to make me feel needy.
It doesn’t say much about your masculinity,
if it feels threatened by my independence.
I’d rather be alone
than with someone who needs to change me
I’d rather be alone
than be someone other than myself.

I need love, love, love
To ease my mind
I need to find, find, find
Someone to call mine
But mama said
You can’t hurry love
You just have to wait

- ‘You can’t hurry love’ Phil Collins
But mama also says (someone else’s mama, my mum and I don’t discuss such things)…a married friend’s mama says,
Don’t expect any kind of sense for [...]