Comments on: Why Committment Starts To Look Attractive http://thexxfactor.net/why-committment-starts-to-look-attractive/ ~ The chromosome that changes everything ~ Fri, 12 Mar 2010 23:42:04 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: IdeaSmith http://thexxfactor.net/why-committment-starts-to-look-attractive/comment-page-1/#comment-1940 IdeaSmith Thu, 26 Feb 2009 14:30:29 +0000 http://thexxfactor.net/?p=589#comment-1940 @ Anubha: You remind me of the protagonist of 'Ladies' Coupe' by Anita Nair. Have you read it? Do...it's lovely. @ p@r@noid: :grin: And more power to you, independent one! @ Anubha: You remind me of the protagonist of ‘Ladies’ Coupe’ by Anita Nair. Have you read it? Do…it’s lovely.

@ p@r@noid: :grin: And more power to you, independent one!

]]> By: p@r@noid http://thexxfactor.net/why-committment-starts-to-look-attractive/comment-page-1/#comment-1933 p@r@noid Wed, 25 Feb 2009 07:01:45 +0000 http://thexxfactor.net/?p=589#comment-1933 No matter what I have decided myself that commitment is not my cup of tea. :oops: <abbr><em>p@r@noids last idea: <a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/Shoutmeloud/~3/uglcvybZbFE/are-you-a-google-friend-connect-user.html" rel="nofollow">Are you a Google Friend Connect user?</a></abbr></em> No matter what I have decided myself that commitment is not my cup of tea. :oops:

p@r@noids last idea: Are you a Google Friend Connect user?

]]> By: Anubha http://thexxfactor.net/why-committment-starts-to-look-attractive/comment-page-1/#comment-1857 Anubha Thu, 12 Feb 2009 18:51:20 +0000 http://thexxfactor.net/?p=589#comment-1857 I seriously going thru same, nothing troubles but the point "Your personal life and social calendar doesn’t become everyone’s personal property for value judgement - relatives, colleagues, acquaintances, neighbors, co-passangers." esp friends..(For others it doesnt matter) but friends are people who i choose and they start taking your time for granted and they start expecting that when they need your are always available but when you need them...they have to look into their priorty list ...this was horrible experience Infact i got so damn frustrated with this kind of treatment ...I just wanted to prove being a single is boon...and decided to go on an implusive trip on my own... And believe that was a trip i enjoyed the most.....and now i believe who needs commitment....Being single is the best thing that can happen,..Freedom is all about freeing your Soul and letting it live in air ..Rather than worrying about social obligations......Thanks a lot for such nice post.....and also one more observation And when in office ...everyone expect us to work 24/7 as we have no household responsibilities to carry.... :) I seriously going thru same, nothing troubles but the point “Your personal life and social calendar doesn’t become everyone’s personal property for value judgement – relatives, colleagues, acquaintances, neighbors, co-passangers.”
esp friends..(For others it doesnt matter) but friends are people who i choose and they start taking your time for granted and they start expecting that when they need your are always available but when you need them…they have to look into their priorty list …this was horrible experience Infact i got so damn frustrated with this kind of treatment …I just wanted to prove being a single is boon…and decided to go on an implusive trip on my own… And believe that was a trip i enjoyed the most…..and now i believe who needs commitment….Being single is the best thing that can happen,..Freedom is all about freeing your Soul and letting it live in air ..Rather than worrying about social obligations……Thanks a lot for such nice post…..and also one more observation
And when in office …everyone expect us to work 24/7 as we have no household responsibilities to carry…. :)

]]> By: IdeaSmith http://thexxfactor.net/why-committment-starts-to-look-attractive/comment-page-1/#comment-1841 IdeaSmith Tue, 10 Feb 2009 08:46:56 +0000 http://thexxfactor.net/?p=589#comment-1841 @ Hyde: And when you do decide, let me know. I'm still wondering. @ Rachna, Ms.Taggart, La Vida Loca: :-( Gaaaaah! @ La Vida Loca: It happened to me on a cruise in Greece. A Belgian couple sitting next to me struck up a conversation, asked me how old I was and then shook their heads and said, "You really ought to be married by now."! @ Hyde: And when you do decide, let me know. I’m still wondering.

@ Rachna, Ms.Taggart, La Vida Loca: :-( Gaaaaah!

@ La Vida Loca: It happened to me on a cruise in Greece. A Belgian couple sitting next to me struck up a conversation, asked me how old I was and then shook their heads and said, “You really ought to be married by now.”!

]]> By: Rachna http://thexxfactor.net/why-committment-starts-to-look-attractive/comment-page-1/#comment-1809 Rachna Tue, 03 Feb 2009 20:03:44 +0000 http://thexxfactor.net/?p=589#comment-1809 @ Ms.Taggart- I totally agree with you- I've also had lectures on why contraception is bad, and even MORE about Boy Kid!! Aarrghhh! @ Ms.Taggart- I totally agree with you- I’ve also had lectures on why contraception is bad, and even MORE about Boy Kid!!
Aarrghhh!

]]> By: La Vida Loca http://thexxfactor.net/why-committment-starts-to-look-attractive/comment-page-1/#comment-1807 La Vida Loca Mon, 02 Feb 2009 17:54:45 +0000 http://thexxfactor.net/?p=589#comment-1807 u r going to love this- I was hanging out at a neighborhood chaat shop and the owner asked me to tell a particular young gal(someone I kinda know, about 23) to get married and settle down. It took me quite a while to recover from that shock! <abbr><em>La Vida Locas last idea: <a href="http://commicacid.blogspot.com/2009/01/irony.html" rel="nofollow">An irony</a></abbr></em> u r going to love this-
I was hanging out at a neighborhood chaat shop and the owner asked me to tell a particular young gal(someone I kinda know, about 23) to get married and settle down. It took me quite a while to recover from that shock!

La Vida Locas last idea: An irony

]]> By: La Vida Loca http://thexxfactor.net/why-committment-starts-to-look-attractive/comment-page-1/#comment-1806 La Vida Loca Mon, 02 Feb 2009 17:39:05 +0000 http://thexxfactor.net/?p=589#comment-1806 I agree w/ Rachna- after u are married, your biological clock becomes public property- when will you have a kid/have a boy kid? In my case- when will you finish school and settle down? meaning pop out a kid. I wont go into "why contraception(pill/patch) is bad lecture Since you are still a student (w/ much free time) why isn't the house sparkling? Why didn't you cook chappatis you lowly cow? You know your husband loves them. Or what you made rice/rasam or sambar again? The shit never ends. Also I notice that other ppl/aunties have problems not your spouse. Hmmmm. <abbr><em>La Vida Locas last idea: <a href="http://commicacid.blogspot.com/2009/01/irony.html" rel="nofollow">An irony</a></abbr></em> I agree w/ Rachna- after u are married, your biological clock becomes public property- when will you have a kid/have a boy kid?

In my case- when will you finish school and settle down? meaning pop out a kid.

I wont go into “why contraception(pill/patch) is bad lecture

Since you are still a student (w/ much free time) why isn’t the house sparkling?

Why didn’t you cook chappatis you lowly cow? You know your husband loves them. Or what you made rice/rasam or sambar again?

The shit never ends.

Also I notice that other ppl/aunties have problems not your spouse. Hmmmm.

La Vida Locas last idea: An irony

]]> By: Ms Taggart http://thexxfactor.net/why-committment-starts-to-look-attractive/comment-page-1/#comment-1805 Ms Taggart Mon, 02 Feb 2009 09:33:02 +0000 http://thexxfactor.net/?p=589#comment-1805 Agree to all the points.. total nod for the one which says that your family will let you live your life... But then, its not all after you get married.. then there are a different set of issues where ppl will eat into your sanity.. ask me ! :) <abbr><em>Ms Taggarts last idea: <a href="http://aynrants.blogspot.com/2009/01/amnesia.html" rel="nofollow">Amnesia!</a></abbr></em> Agree to all the points.. total nod for the one which says that your family will let you live your life…
But then, its not all after you get married.. then there are a different set of issues where ppl will eat into your sanity.. ask me ! :)

Ms Taggarts last idea: Amnesia!

]]> By: Rachna http://thexxfactor.net/why-committment-starts-to-look-attractive/comment-page-1/#comment-1803 Rachna Sun, 01 Feb 2009 19:13:35 +0000 http://thexxfactor.net/?p=589#comment-1803 Hey Ideasmith, I couldn't agree with you more! Esp the part about everybody's business. I had enough heckling to last a lifetime when I was single.. but let me tell you, it does not go away. The aunties DO have NOTHING better to do than trouble you. They started on me to have a kid about 2 weeks BEFORE i got married! Oh F$#% , IT NEVER ENDS!!!!!!!!!! Hey Ideasmith,
I couldn’t agree with you more!
Esp the part about everybody’s business.
I had enough heckling to last a lifetime when I was single..
but let me tell you, it does not go away. The aunties DO have NOTHING better to do than trouble you.
They started on me to have a kid about 2 weeks BEFORE i got married!
Oh F$#% , IT NEVER ENDS!!!!!!!!!!

]]> By: Hyde http://thexxfactor.net/why-committment-starts-to-look-attractive/comment-page-1/#comment-1802 Hyde Sun, 01 Feb 2009 10:52:21 +0000 http://thexxfactor.net/?p=589#comment-1802 Is it a coincidence that you brought this up... this weekend I was thinking whether to finally give up being single and give in to my folks' subtle (and I really do mean subtle) pressure, or not. I am still undecided :-D Is it a coincidence that you brought this up… this weekend I was thinking whether to finally give up being single and give in to my folks’ subtle (and I really do mean subtle) pressure, or not.

I am still undecided :-D

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